The perfect style is something between a fascinator and a hat, sort of like a very wide headband, and without any really dangly or "fly-away" pieces. My favorite piece is a combination of pheasant and peacock feathers, mostly in shades of brown with a few blues and greens, all of them iridescent and glamorous.
Headpiece- Vintage- Sequins, Sugar, Silk
Tee Shirt- Theory- TJ Maxx
Flats- Tory Burch